LOL maybe writing it down will help you remember. I tend to keep people too much at a distance because I remember too well why I don't like them. That isn't good either, sometimes people evolve.

that's why i erase their # from my phone.

Hmmm....we recently caught up over IM.... 

some people i can only take in small doses, like once a year.  which happens to be how often i meet up with a couple of my friends.

i have yet to clean up my phone list. Sigh, it's like i'm holding on to the past but going back there is like reading your pseudo-poem.

I cleaned up my phone list and thus have no chance of initiating contact with such people. Out of sight is out of mind.

lol i know exactly what you mean.